How to deliver the news to your family and friends, who are undoubtedly anxious to learn more about what your loved one is going through, is the last thing on your mind. What say you? Which word do you use? How can you aid others in comprehending what your loved one is experiencing? Although it’s a challenging path to follow, St. Bernardine Home Care is here to assist. Here are some pointers to help you navigate the procedure.
Be Direct, Honest, and Positive
First and foremost, when bringing up the matter, be direct and sincere. Clearly deliver the bad news. Give a clear explanation of the diagnosis, detailing the positives and negatives as well as what to anticipate as your loved one’s dementia worsens. Be honest and upbeat while avoiding sugarcoating. There is no getting around the fact that this is a tragic diagnosis. But keep in mind that your loved one still has a lot of happy days ahead of them. Do not forget that, and do not allow people with whom you share the news to forget it either.
Become Educated About Dementia
There is a ton of knowledge available on dementia. Organizations with strong internet presences, including the Alzheimer’s Association and the Dementia Society of America, provide a wealth of information on diseases that cause memory loss as well as links to regional resources. Additionally, the doctor may have given you booklets outlining what to anticipate after being told you have dementia. Give them to your loved ones and friends who are curious to understand more about what they are going through.
Let Friends and Family Know How They May Help
When they learn that your loved one has dementia, it’s likely that they will want to support them. Allow them. Even if support is merely just scheduling routine visits or acting as a sounding board for your worries, it can make all the difference in the world at this tough time. There is no shame in admitting that you cannot accomplish it alone. It is in everyone’s inclination to desire to assist. They most likely will benefit just as much from the experience of supporting a friend or relative as you and your loved one would. They will also gain a firsthand understanding of what it’s like to live with dementia, depending on the amount of assistance they provide.